Pemergian chef selebriti, Muhammad Adam Mahamed Ismail atau dikenali sebagai Adamdidam benar-benar memberi kesan yang mendalam terhadap anak-anak buahnya.
Umum sedia tahu bahawa anak buah allahyarham chef Adam amat rapat dengannya. Mereka juga terkenal di Instagram menggunakan nama Thefamily.uk . Paling terkesan adalah anak saudaranya bernama Fatimah.
Namun begitu, kesedihan mereka mulai berkurangan apabila adik kepada pengacara terkenal Neelofa iaitu Atisha Khan menjadi pengganti dalam melayani kanak-kanak tersebut.
Fatimah menjerit ketakutan dalam tidur
Walau bagaimanapun, menerusi posting terbaru Thefamily.uk, ibu Fatimah telah memberitahu bahawa anak gadisnya itu diserang kebimbangan melampau ketika sedang tidur kerana bermimpi Atisha Khan pula pergi meninggalkannya.
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Last night, Fatimah had an anxiety attack at 4am. At first, I thought she was just having a bad dream, so I told her to go back to sleep. She was quiet for a while, refusing to talk. But a few minutes later, she started to hyperventilate. Only then did I realise there was something wrong with her. The very first thing that I did was calm myself down, because if I panic, she will get worse. So I pulled myself together and told her to calm down. She started crying… . She then said, "I want Mamajee! I’m scared! Kakak Athisha is leaving and she won’t come back like Mamajee." . At that point, I understood that the cause of her anxiety attack was because Athisha was going back to Malaysia for the Christmas holidays. So now, I realise that separation seems to trigger her anxiety. She couldn’t make it to school, refused to have breakfast and she was crying on and off for a few hours. But luckily, we had some leftover lasagna – her favourite – so we finally managed to convince her to eat. After lunch, Mr Dad took her out shopping for a bit of fresh air. Alhamdulillah, she looks a lot better now and she said that she’s going back to school. . I’m sharing this to reach out to other parents out there. Anxiety is real. Anxiety exists. Not only in adults, but children too. Anxiety is not a sign of weakness. Anxiety is not attention-seeking. Anxiety is a common part of the grieving process. Please do not neglect your children’s emotional wellbeing. If you too are going through a similar experience, please know that you are not alone. Hang in there. Be strong. And if things get worse, please seek professional help. . Love, Mrs Mom xx #wisemomsays . 💌Thank you Kakak @athishakhan for picking up the phone in the middle of the night, and sorry for making you worried. Please don’t think too much – Fatimah is OK now. Enjoy your holiday. We’ll see you after the New Year. . 💌Thank you @drauntie.uk for always being ready to support us, no matter where you are. We miss you so much. Can’t wait to see you soon! . 💌Thank you Mama Love @noorkartini for taking time out of your busy schedule to talk to Fatimah even though you aren’t well yourself. We pray that you’ll feel better soon.
Mimpi Atisha juga pergi tinggalkan dia
Fatimah memberitahu bahawa dia begitu takut kerana dalam mimpinya Atisha telah pergi meninggalkan gadis kecil itu seperti bapa saudaranya juga.
Ketakutan Fatimah kemudiannya dapat diredakan apabila ibunya menghubungi Atisha dan memaklumkan perkara tersebut.
Anxiety bukan gurauan
Sehubungan dengan itu, ibu kepada Fatimah telah memberitahu bahawa serangan anxiety ataupun ketakutan melampau tidak hanya berlaku kepada orang dewasa kerana kanak-kanak juga boleh megalami hal tersebut.
Sehubungan dengan hal tersebut, rata-rata pengguna telah menzahirkan rasa simpati dan mendoakan agar Fatimah terus kuat melawan rasa kebimbangannya. Semoga Fatimah dan keluarga dapat menjalani kehidupan dengan sebaiknya.
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Sumber : The family.uk